We recently moved our family from Utah to Washington state. It
was a huge move for us. We'd always lived within twenty miles of where my
husband was born and raised. I spent most of my life in Utah Valley, as well.
Packing up everything and shifting 800 miles away was difficult in ways I never
imagined. The last walk-through of our house almost made me back out. Seeing
every room empty slammed home the reality of what we were doing. I'm glad we
made the move, though. It's been good for our family.
What do I miss most about Utah? The mountains. They range from
high pine forests on the slopes to aspen groves to bare rocky desert peaks.
Goblin Valley, Arches, and Zion have some very unique red-rock formations and
cliffs which make spectacular scenery. The northern mountains are rich in
minerals and host world-class ski resorts. But that's not what I miss about the
mountains. No matter where we went on a trip, once we crossed the passes into
Utah Valley and saw Mount Timpanogas in the distance, I knew we were almost
home. It was my landmark, my lodestone.
I know Washington state has mountains, they're just not visible
where we live. We have lots of rolling hills and other neat features, but no
huge mountains rising up from the valley with houses along their base like a
fringe of waves washing up against them.
Utah is a unique place to live. I'm coming to appreciate that
more now that we no longer live there. Utah's culture is very deeply influenced
by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, usually referred to as
Mormons. The headquarters of the church are in Salt Lake City. A heavy
percentage of the population are members. Utahns value families and children.
Family interest extends beyond the immediate family of children
and parents and silblings. Mormons believe in finding out where they came from,
tracing their ancestry. Knowing where you came from, finding your roots,
grounds you. It brings strength to know who you are and how you fit in the
larger family of humans. If you want to start searching for your family tree,
try it out on http://www.ancestry.com/
The importance of searching for your family is part of what makes Utah
unique.
It's a huge theme in writing, especially epic fantasy stories.
How many of them start with an orphan who doesn't know his past? The quest to
discover that is a major part of the story. I'm currently working on an epic
fantasy story where the main character knows who she is and her parents are
very much alive. It creates a different dynamic. She has a home, a center, and
that changes how she reacts to the events that push her beyond into unknown
territory.
Moving has made me think about what makes somewhere home.
Familiarity is a big part, but so is the family. My home is no longer Utah.
Driving down the freeway and seeing Mount Timpanogas in the distance still
brings warm fuzzy feelings, but it is no longer my marker, my lodestone to
guide me home. I have a new guidepost, and a new home. Family defines that
home, wherever they may be.
Jaleta Clegg writes science fiction adventures, epic fantasy, and
silly horror. She sometimes dabbles in other genres as the mood strikes. Find
her work at http://www.jaletac.com
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Utah sounds really lovely. Can't wait to visit someday.
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PamT
I'm with Jaleta about the mountains. They are amazing, mighty and rugged, and from Layton, we have a 240-degree view! We also love the friendliness of the people and the weather. Would you believe it's the perfect state for a convertible? I have a Miata, and the only time the top is up is when there's precipitation, which is perhaps 100 of 365 days.
ReplyDeleteLike Jaleta, however, home is where family is. My husband is a retired Colonel, so we traveled all around the world, and even though he's retired, we may have the opportunity to move again. However, we've decided when the time comes to stay put, we'll return to Utah.
Thanks for posting about Neeta Lyffe. It's a great story for Halloween, and funny enough to carry into November. My latest novel (because Annette asked) is a science fiction novel, Discovery. https://www.amazon.com/Discovery-Karina-Fabian-ebook/dp/B01LJX7INS
Good post and interesting question at the end. My lodestone for more than 30 years was the Raritan Bay. Every night, in weather good or bad (or starting good and a black cloud roars down the river), my husband and I walked the waterfront and watched the sunset on the Manhattan skyline. Two things changed that. The fall fo the Twin Towers on 9-11 in 2001 and moving to another state in 2016.
ReplyDeleteNow the walk is different, there are new roads and turns to memorize, but family has remained the same.
Perfect description of what home and family are. Many people over the years have traveled away from home and as they age, family becomes less. You made some execelent points about family in writing and I wish you well in your endeavors. Doris-writing as Angela Raines
ReplyDeleteI haven't been to Utah but know it's absolutely breathtaking. I've been to Washington (Seattle) and love it. You're very fortunate in your states, Jaleta!
ReplyDeleteI drove from Salt Lake City to Yellowstone once. What a beautiful drive. Amazing scenery and a sense of isolation that differs from where I live on the East Coast. We stopped at a restaurant to eat (basically, the one we found) and we had to eat what they had on hand. She said, "A big group came through before you and wiped out all the vegetables." lol No daily deliveries out there.
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